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Nervous first timer
sexmadman
Client
7
posts. Member since
Jun 2020
28th Apr '23 - 18:51PM
Dont sweat it fella it aint a big deal
micronot
Client
8
posts. Member since
Sep 2020
30th Apr '23 - 02:42AM
wrote:
we were all first-timers once Ryan.
very true but its easy to forget the first meet and how nervous we were
romsmash
Client
7
posts. Member since
Nov 2021
1st May '23 - 10:09AM
Go for a 15 minute pump and dump first time then look for something longer the next time.
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Adam99
Client
7
posts. Member since
Sep 2021
1st May '23 - 10:41AM
romsmash wrote:
Go for a 15 minute pump and dump first time then look for something longer the next time.
theres some sense in that
ArcticFlower
Client
177
posts. Member since
Mar 2022
1st May '23 - 14:06PM
Do research and read many profiles. Read the whole thing because there's information there about what they're willing or unwilling to do.
There is wisdom in the phrase "suspiciously cheap" and "reassuringly expensive". The £100 worker may not be a scam, but the experience may feel more like a medical procedure than a seduction so consider carefully what you want. The limiting factor is reviews. I've had excellent experiences with workers without reviews but those were the reassuringly expensive ones.
Be direst, polite and thorough when you text/email (phoning is usually not ideal for them). Tell them when and where you want the appointment, incall or outcall, and for how long.
Wash yourself thoroughly in the hour before leaving (I have had extra services for shaving down there). Don't forget to trim your nails and add a little fragrance.
Don't assume they will be easy to find; do a trial run of finding the neighbourhood/postcode area they text you with Petal or some other satellite navigation.
Bring water and something to snack on (like an apple).
Remain in communication, don't be alarmed if they ask you to wait 10 minutes and they will tell you the house number at the last possible moment.
Never pay a deposit for an incall or local outcall. And be wary of Watsapp too.
Try to have a good bit of tourist Romanian and Portuguese down. Not because they won't speak English; I just find that people are grateful to hear you made this small effort. "Multemesc" and "Obrigado" both mean thank you.
There is wisdom in the phrase "suspiciously cheap" and "reassuringly expensive". The £100 worker may not be a scam, but the experience may feel more like a medical procedure than a seduction so consider carefully what you want. The limiting factor is reviews. I've had excellent experiences with workers without reviews but those were the reassuringly expensive ones.
Be direst, polite and thorough when you text/email (phoning is usually not ideal for them). Tell them when and where you want the appointment, incall or outcall, and for how long.
Wash yourself thoroughly in the hour before leaving (I have had extra services for shaving down there). Don't forget to trim your nails and add a little fragrance.
Don't assume they will be easy to find; do a trial run of finding the neighbourhood/postcode area they text you with Petal or some other satellite navigation.
Bring water and something to snack on (like an apple).
Remain in communication, don't be alarmed if they ask you to wait 10 minutes and they will tell you the house number at the last possible moment.
Never pay a deposit for an incall or local outcall. And be wary of Watsapp too.
Try to have a good bit of tourist Romanian and Portuguese down. Not because they won't speak English; I just find that people are grateful to hear you made this small effort. "Multemesc" and "Obrigado" both mean thank you.
smashitup
Client
7
posts. Member since
Nov 2021
1st May '23 - 14:23PM
ArcticFlower wrote:
Do research and read many profiles. Read the whole thing because there's information there about what they're willing or unwilling to do.
Remain in communication, don't be alarmed if they ask you to wait 10 minutes and they will tell you the house number at the last possible moment.
Never pay a deposit for an incall or local outcall. And be wary of Watsapp too.
Remain in communication, don't be alarmed if they ask you to wait 10 minutes and they will tell you the house number at the last possible moment.
Never pay a deposit for an incall or local outcall. And be wary of Watsapp too.
Agreed
Plunge
Client
9
posts. Member since
Nov 2021
1st May '23 - 22:59PM
BobStevens wrote:
Its like learing to swim, once youv've taken the plunge its fun.
took the words right out of my mouth
wang1990
Client
7
posts. Member since
Sep 2021
2nd May '23 - 07:30AM
wrote:
Following from what Angie said, make sure you read the profile fully. There is nothing more frustrating than getting asked tons of questions that we have answered already!
Maybe look for a GFE (girlfriend experience) provider. Just be polite and respectful, we are used to nerves so try not to overthink, it’s supposed to be a fun experience!
Good luck! X
Maybe look for a GFE (girlfriend experience) provider. Just be polite and respectful, we are used to nerves so try not to overthink, it’s supposed to be a fun experience!
Good luck! X
go with this
Aexpensivehobby
Client
10
posts. Member since
Oct 2020
2nd May '23 - 08:24AM
wrote:
Good luck Ryan. Don't be afraid to tell the lady it's your first time with a Working Girl. She will help you get over your nerves and I will tell you a little secret - even experinced punters get nervous meeting a new girl, but this soon passes once the meeting is underway.
Make sure you shower, shave etc. and dress well as you would on a first date. The girl will appreciate this and it will boost your self confidence.
Don't forget to report back!
Make sure you shower, shave etc. and dress well as you would on a first date. The girl will appreciate this and it will boost your self confidence.
Don't forget to report back!
yes don't forget
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vampire
Client
10
posts. Member since
Oct 2020
2nd May '23 - 08:33AM
wrote:
we were all first-timers once Ryan.
Thats very true, I can recall how jittery I was first time, luckily it fades over time.
ustwo
Client
2
posts. Member since
Jun 2023
9th Aug '23 - 18:11PM
micronot wrote:
very true but its easy to forget the first meet and how nervous we were
Even we were nervous
ps80oo
Client
56
posts. Member since
Feb 2023
10th Aug '23 - 20:44PM
Don't overthink it. From experience, you regret putting it off or backing down later when you finally do. Must admit, I found it much easier talking to potential partners outside of escorting, "after" having been with an escort (very shy around women), although I never thought it would be that way. Do your homework when selecting someone though. A lot of profiles can be fake/manipulated. If the pictures have been there for some time or are at weird angles, or are heavily edited, there is probably a reason for that. Equally, read the words. If something seems off, it might be. There are some phrases that ring alarm belles. "New in town" is one of them. Pick someone with lots of consistent good external reviews, who has been doing it for some time. Safe bet.
It is probably going to go better if you are well turned out and look after her needs. Being a gentleman and starting with gentle stimulation of her can really help. Also, if you don't know if she is ok with something, ask is important - "kiss ?" "lick ?". Doesn't need to be formal.
It is probably going to go better if you are well turned out and look after her needs. Being a gentleman and starting with gentle stimulation of her can really help. Also, if you don't know if she is ok with something, ask is important - "kiss ?" "lick ?". Doesn't need to be formal.
playtimes
Client
6
posts. Member since
May 2020
13th Sep '23 - 16:22PM
wrote:
Read the Profile properly first, then try to call the lady in question first before you meet up.
Remember to be Respectful and should you decide to make an appointment, try to follow it through as nobody likes having their time wasted. If you can’t make the appointment let the lady in question know you can’t make it in plenty of time and don’t use the excuse ‘I’ve been called into/back to work’ as this is the number one excuse that’s used frequently.
If you do follow through, a Professional will help you be at ease and remember Respect and Courtesy go a long way.
Good luck in your search
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Remember to be Respectful and should you decide to make an appointment, try to follow it through as nobody likes having their time wasted. If you can’t make the appointment let the lady in question know you can’t make it in plenty of time and don’t use the excuse ‘I’ve been called into/back to work’ as this is the number one excuse that’s used frequently.
If you do follow through, a Professional will help you be at ease and remember Respect and Courtesy go a long way.
Good luck in your search
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sums it up quite nicely
Chriscooper4545
Client
56
posts. Member since
Mar 2023
13th Sep '23 - 18:53PM
SoniaBestOWO wrote:
Just relax, dont ask silly questions and read profiles.
I don't think that any questions are stupid if they're genuine. You have to realise that for some people who's firdt time it is they will be immensely nervous and completely clueless to how it all works..
It's not like you can have a FAQ section on the likes of here because veery single woman is different and rightly so. As is every single punter.
Great pics by the way!