SMFreeman85
Client
34
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Jul 2022
4th Aug '22 - 21:27PM
Totally new at this. To those who've done this before, what would you reccomend sending as a first message to an escort you're interested in? What's most likely to get a response and the dos and don'ts. I'm rubbish at wording these things and I may be "too proper" or "too formal" with speaking. Are we supposed to talk that way or do escorts prefer "dirty talk"?
(Feel free to chime in your opinion too if you're an escort on here. I'm a little nervous and unsure)
Thanks
(Feel free to chime in your opinion too if you're an escort on here. I'm a little nervous and unsure)
Thanks
Nathanhook
Client
101
posts. Member since
Oct 2020
5th Aug '22 - 06:39AM
Keep any message short and to the point. Something like Hi xxxx, seen your profile on adultseek. I'm xxxx and would like to arrange an incall/outfall booking for x hours at x time today please. I would like the following and list services you would like.
Good luck and enjoy.
Good luck and enjoy.
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Britishwildflower
Escort
214
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Jan 2020
5th Aug '22 - 08:44AM
Exactly what Nathanhook says, polite and to the point and absolutely no dirty talk in messages.
McGraw
Client
6
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Jan 2022
5th Aug '22 - 10:48AM
When I’m messaging a service provider I keep matters polite, business like and brief. I only discuss matters like special requests after the initial message has been replied to.
SMFreeman85
Client
34
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Jul 2022
5th Aug '22 - 20:22PM
Thanks guys. I think I was polite. Already contacted 2 people but was worried I'd screwed it up as I've had no reply. Didn't want to message again as I don't want to come across as creepy or desperate. Generally it was just a hello, found your profile would you be interested in me making a booking (didn't say what services I wanted though was gonna leave that till the next message) and asked what method of payment they prefer. All ok?
McGraw
Client
6
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Jan 2022
5th Aug '22 - 21:39PM
Sounds alright to me. I personally leave discussion about payment until after the time and length of the meeting has been agreed. Phone call is my preferred method of making arrangements as the meeting tends to go better if you have spoken previously but this will differ with every service provider.
SMFreeman85
Client
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Jul 2022
5th Aug '22 - 21:52PM
I probably will try phone call next time actually.
lanky
Client
10
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Mar 2022
5th Aug '22 - 23:35PM
I get the best response rate from texting
Bangerandgash
Client
11
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Nov 2021
7th Aug '22 - 18:52PM
keep it polite, to the point and as lanky suggested text is best.
Energized
Client
9
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Mar 2022
8th Aug '22 - 17:07PM
Dirty talk wont get you very far and probably ignored by most.
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SMFreeman85
Client
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8th Aug '22 - 19:32PM
I'm glad. I'm awful at dirty talk anyway and would have just been embarrassing. Glad I don't have to do that
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Blackadder
Client
6
posts. Member since
Jul 2022
9th Aug '22 - 10:45AM
Hi (insert name( I saw your profile and was wondering if you are available for (insert duration) on the (insert date and time)?
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svetha
Client
5
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Mar 2022
10th Aug '22 - 23:40PM
polite, simple, to the point and no dirty talk
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RoguePunter
Client
15
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Sep 2021
16th Jan '23 - 20:09PM
and avoid all on whatsapp
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SpermCount
Client
6
posts. Member since
Apr 2023
21st Apr '23 - 11:34AM
Nathanhook wrote:
Keep any message short and to the point. Something like Hi xxxx, seen your profile on adultseek. I'm xxxx and would like to arrange an incall/outfall booking for x hours at x time today please. I would like the following and list services you would like.
Good luck and enjoy.
Good luck and enjoy.
thanks
partyon
Client
2
posts. Member since
Jul 2023
4th Jul '23 - 15:54PM
hey thanks for all the advice
Allornuffing
Client
4
posts. Member since
Apr 2023
17th Sep '23 - 14:10PM
Britishwildflower wrote:
Exactly what Nathanhook says, polite and to the point and absolutely no dirty talk in messages.
Thats where I went wrong in the beginning
Patherpuss
Client
8
posts. Member since
Nov 2020
27th Nov '23 - 10:23AM
Dont start off with any of the following
Where are you located?
You free?
are you available now?
Do you?
What services do you?
I want to fuck you
Where are you located?
You free?
are you available now?
Do you?
What services do you?
I want to fuck you
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DELBOY118
Client
4
posts. Member since
May 2023
28th Nov '23 - 19:43PM
Patherpuss wrote:
Dont start off with any of the following
Where are you located?
You free?
are you available now?
Do you?
What services do you?
I want to fuck you
Where are you located?
You free?
are you available now?
Do you?
What services do you?
I want to fuck you
How you ment to inquire about there location?
Iman
Client
9
posts. Member since
Oct 2020
28th Nov '23 - 19:52PM
DELBOY118 wrote:
[quote=Patherpuss]Dont start off with any of the following
Where are you located?
You free?
are you available now?
Do you?
What services do you?
I want to fuck you[/quote]
How you ment to inquire about there location?
Where are you located?
You free?
are you available now?
Do you?
What services do you?
I want to fuck you[/quote]
How you ment to inquire about there location?
once youv've booked