Xtasia & Jaydees

Hi, looking to try out either of the above Swingers clubs. They're the exact same distance from where I live. Has anyone been to either of these? Just wondered which one might be better.

Are you intending to try and go as a single male ?

Dont know those clubs are you sure they allow single men ?

As said you better check first and not just turn up.

Although some clubs do have "open days" you will need to check with them.

If you dont mind telling us, what is your interest in swinging?

our experience with swinging was a mixed bag really, but we wonder if the op is aware of what the expectations are for single men in swinging, its probably the opposite to what he wants.

Already done my research. They do provided its booked and paid in advance etc.

Oh really please explain? I'm intrigued

Looking to meet some likeminded people, hopefully with some sexual encounters that are more random and less "fixed because I paid for it direct" so to feel a bit more affair-ish. But just having good conversations would be fine for me as well. Just wanna be more confident.

Did you have any luck at these clubs ?

Many times at swinger clubs the gatekeepers if you like are the husbands, the bisexual ones will often require a bj to completion and maybe more for them first before you get near their women.

I was invited to go to one of these clubs here in the UK a few times, I refused for the simple reason that I was a swinger in my country and I know how things work in that environment, A swinger club is only for (real) couples, this implies trust and respect for each other! Someone who hires an escort to go to a swing club is not a swinger and doesn't know what a swinger club is:). I think the concept of swing is the same everywhere in the world!

We only ever went to 2 open days at a club near us, the first time was when we joined the club, that went well. The second there were some singles there, the girls seemed to have fun but the boys we dont think realised that they are the bottom of the totum pole, a couple who are bi did ok, the straight ones ran off. 😂

You may be better suited to meet ups which some SP can facilitate, I know a few in Manchester who organise one each month with 5 different girls and 6 lads, all lads pay £200 and it lasts for 90 minutes...

It's a mixed bag or girls and mixed services, you also aren't guaranteed to get who you want as usually everyone will want the hottest 😆 hense the price, but you also get to nut as many times as you want etc but also have to provide a clear panel showing no STD's within past 2 weeks.

Thanks for the warning, removed from my bucket list.