Sexless marriage & seeing escorts

As soon as I find someone and complete lack of sex it's been over 2 years now so I feel I have to do something about it

No she don't know, but feel I can't wait any longer now just got to find a lady to arrange a booking

Will do, just hope I can find someone local fingers crossed

No she don't know, but feel I can't wait any longer now just got to find a lady to arrange a booking

Go on adultwork and use your postcode

Go on adultwork and use your postcode[/quote]

Where abouts are you located?

I would say 70% of the clients I receive are married, happily or not in some cases but everyone (men and women) have the need to a desire its natural. Have you figured out why your wife no longer likes to do it if she once did? I know the menopause in some women can turn things drastically around and the thought of things is harrowing.

If you can find an escort local, perhaps explain your situation and see if you can visit and just start with kissing another woman or touching her until your comfortable 😊

Go on adultwork and use your postcode[/quote]

Where abouts are you located?

I would say 70% of the clients I receive are married, happily or not in some cases but everyone (men and women) have the need to a desire its natural. Have you figured out why your wife no longer likes to do it if she once did? I know the menopause in some women can turn things drastically around and the thought of things is harrowing.

If you can find an escort local, perhaps explain your situation and see if you can visit and just start with kissing another woman or touching her until your comfortable 😊[/quote]

Near Bristol Why'd you ask?

It's interesting to hear from actual escorts the rates of married Vs unmarried, it's a lot higher than I thought.

And I really have the desire... more than I ever have... it's all I think about at work, im constantly looking up different escorts profiles and just imagining the possibilities and constantly watching porn remembering life before marriage and to be fair to my wife I'm also remembering our sex lives earlier on in our relationship before it all ground to a halt.

And with regard to my wife's wants and needs all I can say is it's 50% medical which I understand and 50% lack of wanting to do the dirtier stuff in porn.

Lastly you said about meeting an escort and starting slowly but like I said a Thai girl at a massage place grabbed me there and I stopped it from going further and I've felt terrible about that by itself.

In my mind though I just want to get down to the dirty stuff. I feel like I'm split in two. Loyal husband and someone wanting sexual activity.

Go on adultwork and use your postcode[/quote]

Where abouts are you located?

I would say 70% of the clients I receive are married, happily or not in some cases but everyone (men and women) have the need to a desire its natural. Have you figured out why your wife no longer likes to do it if she once did? I know the menopause in some women can turn things drastically around and the thought of things is harrowing.

If you can find an escort local, perhaps explain your situation and see if you can visit and just start with kissing another woman or touching her until your comfortable 😊[/quote]

Near Bristol Why'd you ask?

It's interesting to hear from actual escorts the rates of married Vs unmarried, it's a lot higher than I thought.

And I really have the desire... more than I ever have... it's all I think about at work, im constantly looking up different escorts profiles and just imagining the possibilities and constantly watching porn remembering life before marriage and to be fair to my wife I'm also remembering our sex lives earlier on in our relationship before it all ground to a halt.

And with regard to my wife's wants and needs all I can say is it's 50% medical which I understand and 50% lack of wanting to do the dirtier stuff in porn.

Lastly you said about meeting an escort and starting slowly but like I said a Thai girl at a massage place grabbed me there and I stopped it from going further and I've felt terrible about that by itself.

In my mind though I just want to get down to the dirty stuff. I feel like I'm split in two. Loyal husband and someone wanting sexual activity.[/quote]

I just thought if anyone local to you see this they could help 😊 I'm too far away!

You sound really lovely and at a battle with yourself, I think your either all in or all out at this point.. the "fuck it - let's go for it" or the "speak to the wife and talk about your feelings and wants"

Porn isn't always reality either, I've learnt that through doing this. I thought men would want porn star quality and the dirty side of things and most are very happy with the basics because they aren't getting it at home which makes sense!

If someone randomly grabbed my vagina after a massage I'd be struck too and wonder what on earth is happening. Going to an escort is your choice and should discuss in detail what your happy doing before you meet so your more comfortable x

Hi, I'm an escort and I can say majority of clients are in sexless marriages. Sex tends to take a back burner with all of lifes stresses to contend with, then theres menopause etc which can impact a woman's sex drive. That's when men should be reaching out to escorts rather than nagging their wives or cheating. Escorts are a paid, discreet and no stress exchange of sex, nothing to feel guilty about and it's over as soon as you leave. Your wife gets her needs behind your back by spending too much on shoes etc. So you do you and let her do her, nobody gets hurt, everybody is happy.

Jesus! How to say your not married without saying your not married. If only life were that simple.

Jesus! How to say your not married without saying your not married. If only life were that simple.

I'm here to offer a service, much like a drug dealer, but I would never encourage anyone to use my service as a first resort when it comes to people's marriages.

Jesus! How to say your not married without saying your not married. If only life were that simple.

I'm here to offer a service, much like a drug dealer, but I would never encourage anyone to use my service as a first resort when it comes to people's marriages. [/quote]

I agree definitely not the first resort, I'm in a sexless marriage and it's been over 2 years without sex so it is the last resort now after a lot of thought

Jesus! How to say your not married without saying your not married. If only life were that simple.

I'm here to offer a service, much like a drug dealer, but I would never encourage anyone to use my service as a first resort when it comes to people's marriages. [/quote]

I agree definitely not the first resort, I'm in a sexless marriage and it's been over 2 years without sex so it is the last resort now after a lot of thought[/quote]

I'm sorry hun for your situation. Sometimes these things can't be worked out and in thoes circumstances I'm glad there is a service like ours for you.

Jesus! How to say your not married without saying your not married. If only life were that simple.

I'm here to offer a service, much like a drug dealer, but I would never encourage anyone to use my service as a first resort when it comes to people's marriages. [/quote]

I agree definitely not the first resort, I'm in a sexless marriage and it's been over 2 years without sex so it is the last resort now after a lot of thought[/quote]

I'm sorry hun for your situation. Sometimes these things can't be worked out and in thoes circumstances I'm glad there is a service like ours for you.[/quote]

Thank you that's very nice of you to say, I have not yet seen an escort yet but I am planning to as soon as I find someone local and to be honest I am looking forward to it now