PearlNexen
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4th Dec '23 - 12:26PM
I just had a no show booked since yesterday!Tried message today from 10 am till session hour...no answer,why you think they do that?
How you deal with?? block them?
How you deal with?? block them?
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ElleSoumise
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5th Dec '23 - 20:38PM
I have had SO many no shows! They don't even have the curiosity to say they either aren't interested anymore or something else has come up.
I find lots of men like the ideal of having a woman for a service than actually doing it.
Some get scared or nervous. I also find on a weekend i get alot of men who are drunk or had a dab in some powder want a quickie but then are to intoxicated to remember they've booked.
I no longer take bookings past midnight on a Friday/Saturday.
Personally I'd block them and delete their number or save the number incase they tried popping up in the future so you now not to respond.
I find lots of men like the ideal of having a woman for a service than actually doing it.
Some get scared or nervous. I also find on a weekend i get alot of men who are drunk or had a dab in some powder want a quickie but then are to intoxicated to remember they've booked.
I no longer take bookings past midnight on a Friday/Saturday.
Personally I'd block them and delete their number or save the number incase they tried popping up in the future so you now not to respond.
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Curvygirl0101xo
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6th Dec '23 - 03:02AM
I get so many time wasters and now shows! I get a lot of people block me aswell for no reason. A few days ago I had someone book me for an overnight I got ready to be picked up he kept telling me he was stuck in traffic to this day he still hasn’t arrived…. lol I also get a lot of men demand for nudes then block when you say no or I will get messages telling me my prices are too high etc
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TheBaldGoddess
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2nd Jan '24 - 10:43AM
I've had a few and it's very frustrating to get ready for nothing

ClassicBlonde
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7th Jan '24 - 12:04PM
Had that this morning and turned away two others so everyone misses out - have reported them to admin

MatureAbbie
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19th Jan '24 - 03:43AM
This site deffinatley attracts a huge amount of timewasters just like vivastreet
ive been doing escorting for 19yrs so the timewasters dont really bother me anymore
let me down once and a deposit is required for all future bookings
it does get rid of them because they have no intension of turning up for the meeting
they like to think your sat there waiting for them
you will get timewasters everywhere ive worked all over the uk and the North west area is the worst place to work for timewasters, in the uk, its a pity they have nothing better to do in thier life than harrass escorts,
ive been doing escorting for 19yrs so the timewasters dont really bother me anymore
let me down once and a deposit is required for all future bookings
it does get rid of them because they have no intension of turning up for the meeting
they like to think your sat there waiting for them
you will get timewasters everywhere ive worked all over the uk and the North west area is the worst place to work for timewasters, in the uk, its a pity they have nothing better to do in thier life than harrass escorts,
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Tristar
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20th Jan '24 - 00:09AM
I totally agree with Mature Abbie
Keep the escort informed, so at least she knows what's happening.
Okay, things crop up, eg traffic. So, give the lady a call/text to explain why you're running late.
But to book and have no intention of turning up... that's just pointless. Unless said client gets a kick out of doing this. ( Butt crack imho ).
If it's a no show, then a deposit is required for any future bookings. No deposit, no meeting, simple. Unless the client gives you ( and can prove ) a genuine reason as to why he never turned up..
Keep the escort informed, so at least she knows what's happening.
Okay, things crop up, eg traffic. So, give the lady a call/text to explain why you're running late.
But to book and have no intention of turning up... that's just pointless. Unless said client gets a kick out of doing this. ( Butt crack imho ).
If it's a no show, then a deposit is required for any future bookings. No deposit, no meeting, simple. Unless the client gives you ( and can prove ) a genuine reason as to why he never turned up..

Deb
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2nd Feb '24 - 11:17AM
I just wrote about this on the clients' forum - under the discussion about deposits required.
I explained these NOSHOWS aren't just a little irritation. They are annoying guys that have a major impact on how we work and is part of the reason guys may find it hard to get an appointment.
I've been at this for 30 years, so I have a bit of experience!
In my situation, I work 9-3 (you know) Monday to Friday and not at home.
But I also do another job - which I will do at home.
I take 1 client a day, and it is a 2-hour session. So, I've take a big chunk out of my day to see a client, which is fine if he turns up or even if he lets me know at the last minute that he can't make it - I'm fine with that.
But if I have travelled to my workplace - & warmed it up, and sat waiting - I am not happy.
I already don't feel 24 hours in a day is enough, so I can do without SELFISH MEN wasting my time like that!
So, what do I do?
I don't BLOCK anyone. I want to see who is contacting me. But the NO SHOWs do get flagged, so I know who they are and I can make a decision on that. If it suits me, I might book them in again.
Because of NO SHOWS I'm unlikely to take same-day bookings from people who haven't contacted me before because I don't know whether it is worthwhile going and getting set up to wait for the stranger.
AND I prefer new clients to come via an AW booking as I find they are the most likely to turn up.
I have an automated booking system on my own website that works perfectly for my regular clients - but anyone can use it to book, and I find sometimes it is these that don't turn up - even though they have booked and I have their email address and phone number via the booking details & they appear to be genuine people.
NOW - if someone is 5 minutes late I will contact them by phone or text. I've heard men deny making a booking, of course. If they have used my automated booking system the they will have received a reminder email and a reminder TEXT. so there is no excuse. They should have got incontact with me. The text goes out 1 hour before the booking and the email goes out the day before.
What to do? I wish I had the answer.
I explained these NOSHOWS aren't just a little irritation. They are annoying guys that have a major impact on how we work and is part of the reason guys may find it hard to get an appointment.
I've been at this for 30 years, so I have a bit of experience!
In my situation, I work 9-3 (you know) Monday to Friday and not at home.
But I also do another job - which I will do at home.
I take 1 client a day, and it is a 2-hour session. So, I've take a big chunk out of my day to see a client, which is fine if he turns up or even if he lets me know at the last minute that he can't make it - I'm fine with that.
But if I have travelled to my workplace - & warmed it up, and sat waiting - I am not happy.
I already don't feel 24 hours in a day is enough, so I can do without SELFISH MEN wasting my time like that!
So, what do I do?
I don't BLOCK anyone. I want to see who is contacting me. But the NO SHOWs do get flagged, so I know who they are and I can make a decision on that. If it suits me, I might book them in again.
Because of NO SHOWS I'm unlikely to take same-day bookings from people who haven't contacted me before because I don't know whether it is worthwhile going and getting set up to wait for the stranger.
AND I prefer new clients to come via an AW booking as I find they are the most likely to turn up.
I have an automated booking system on my own website that works perfectly for my regular clients - but anyone can use it to book, and I find sometimes it is these that don't turn up - even though they have booked and I have their email address and phone number via the booking details & they appear to be genuine people.
NOW - if someone is 5 minutes late I will contact them by phone or text. I've heard men deny making a booking, of course. If they have used my automated booking system the they will have received a reminder email and a reminder TEXT. so there is no excuse. They should have got incontact with me. The text goes out 1 hour before the booking and the email goes out the day before.
What to do? I wish I had the answer.

Msrihanna
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5th Feb '24 - 16:45PM
I block them
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BigBootyBabe
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8th Mar '24 - 15:42PM
PearlNexen wrote:
I just had a no show booked since yesterday!Tried message today from 10 am till session hour...no answer,why you think they do that?
How you deal with?? block them?
How you deal with?? block them?
Yes block them do you have clienteye as it's brilliant and let you check their number, other escorts will use it to leave warnings for other escorts and will save you time x
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PEPPERMINT
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9th Mar '24 - 09:46AM
We should start a name/number shame list of clients who waste our time they so wind me up I had one last night booked an hour. He said he was 100% and low and behold no show they don’t realise that we then lose out on money. I have a rule if they ghost me then the next time no booking without a deposit. I find any bookings made in the early hours is some horny guy whose just of there face on Cowie who then wake up in the morning after a having a handshank and just don’t care about cancelling it’s just rude.
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BigBootyBabe
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9th Mar '24 - 09:49AM
PEPPERMINT wrote:
We should start a name/number shame list of clients who waste our time they so wind me up I had one last night booked an hour. He said he was 100% and low and behold no show they don’t realise that we then lose out on money. I have a rule if they ghost me then the next time no booking without a deposit. I find any bookings made in the early hours is some horny guy whose just of there face on Cowie who then wake up in the morning after a having a handshank and just don’t care about cancelling it’s just rude.
There’s an app client eye that escorts across the country use and let you no if they are time wasters etc
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